Terms and Conditions


We will...

  • Only show data which you've made publicly visible on your profile. You can change this data anytime by logging into your account or deleting your account.
  • Not claim ownership of your uploaded photos or videos: you keep the copyrights to your photos and videos. However, if you participate in our forums, we maintain posts after you leave the site. Should you wish to leave the site one day, you can remove all photos and videos from your profile on the site, but your forum posts will remain on the site in perpetuity.
  • Not sell or trade your data to third party organizations. The exception to this is when you register, we provide VSMedia your email and username to automatically subscribe you to a free account with a co-branded site ran by VSMedia at the time of registration.

We ask that you...

  • Be a real, natural person who is 18 years of age or older.
  • Be the copyright owner of the content you upload.
  • Not misuse or abuse our services or other users.
  • Use your profile only for non-commercial purposes.
  • Follow our Message Center Policy if you use our Forums.


In order to keep you informed about what’s happening on our site, we might send you emails in the future about visitors to your profile, new users in your area and other similar information. You can unsubscribe from these emails by logging into your account and changing your email preferences.


Your contributions to the site are intended for public consumption and are therefore viewable by the public, including your photos, videos, ratings, reviews, and forum posts. Your account profile is also intended for public consumption, as is some of your other activity through the site, like which users you follow, and which users you are friends with. You can limit the public nature of some of these activities through your My Account area.


By subscribing to and entering boytoy.com, you certify the following information and understand that we are relying on such certification and agreement to these terms of service for allowing entry into the site. You hereby certify under sworn declaration of perjury the following:

  • That you are 18 years of age or older;
  • That you are familiar with all local laws in your area affecting your legal right to access erotica or adult oriented materials;
  • That you have the legal right to access adult-oriented materials and boytoy.com has the legal right to transmit them to you; that you are requesting adult-oriented materials for your own private enjoyment and that you will never share these materials with a minor or in ANY WAY make these materials available to a minor.
  • Will not depict or describe any person on the Boytoy as being under 18 years old, regardless of whether or not they are over 18 years old.
  • Will not use, encourage or suggest to others to use the Boytoy site for any illegal or criminal purpose, or in violation of any local, provincial, national, or international law, including, without limitation, laws governing intellectual property and other proprietary rights, data protection and privacy, and import or export control.



Boytoy.com is a trademark of Boytoy.com and may be used publicly only with express written permission. Other trademarks and service marks featured on the site are displayed pursuant to licenses obtained from the owners and/or holders of those trademarks and service marks, and may not be used publicly without the express written consent of the owners and/or holders of such trademarks and service marks.



Except for public domain material and electronic messages, all materials on this site are protected by copyright and are protected under treaty provisions and worldwide copyright laws. Materials contained in any part of the site may not be reproduced, copied, edited, published, transmitted or uploaded in any way without the written permission of the sites owner.


Except as expressly stated in the Limited License provision in these Terms of Use, no grant of any express or implied right to you under any of her trademarks, copyrights or other proprietary information are given.


Limited license

Boytoy.com provides the materials on this site for the personal, non-commercial use by viewers, fans, visitors, subscribers and/or potential subscribers of said site. Users of this site are granted a single copy license to only view (on a single computer only). That the viewing of said information does not constitute the right to print or copy of any of the information made available for viewing on this site. The viewing of information on this site is for personal, non-commercial use only. Site owner reserves the right to limit the amount of materials viewed.

Commercial use of any material located on it, is strictly prohibited. In addition, users of this site may not: (i) modify any of the materials found in any area of this site, download or copy any material from this site; (ii) use any of the materials found in any area of this site for any public display, performance, sale or rental; (iii) remove, modify or alter any copyright or other proprietary notice, or trademarks from any of the materials found in any area of the site; or (iv) otherwise transfer any material located in any area of this site to any other person or entity.

Site owner reserves the right to terminate this license at any time if you breach or violate any provision of this Terms of Use agreement, in which case you will be obligated to immediately destroy any information or materials you have downloaded, printed or otherwise copied from this site. Site owner reserves all other rights coincident or related to this site.


Communications not private

Site owner does not provide any facility for sending or receiving private or confidential electronic communications. All messages transmitted to site owner shall be deemed to be readily accessible to the general public.


Visitors should not use this site to transmit any communication for which the sender intends only the sender and the intended recipient (s) to read. Notice is hereby given that all messages entered into this site can and may be read by the operators of this service, regardless of whether or the operators are the intended recipients of such messages.



The materials on this site are provided “as is” without any express or implied warranty of any kind including warranties of merchantability, noninfringement of intellectual property or fitness for a particular purpose. Site owner offers no assurance of uninterrupted or error free service. Site owner does not warrant the accuracy or completeness of the information, text, graphics, links or other items contained on this web site. Site owner may change any of the information found at this site at any time without notice including the terms of service without notice. Site owner makes no commitment to update the information found at this site. In no event site owner be liable for any damages whatsoever (including, without limitation, damages for loss of profits, business interruption, loss of information) arising out of the use or inability to use the material or information available on this site, even if site owner has been advised of such damages. (because some jurisdictions prohibit the exclusion or limitation of liability for consequential or incidental damages, the above limitation may not apply to you.)


Unscreened Content

You acknowledge that we do not pre-screen material posted or transmitted on the site, but that we and our designees shall have the right (but not the obligation) in our sole discretion to review and edit, delete or refuse to post any material submitted for display or placed on the site, including but not limited to message board posts, profiles, images, personals, and reviews.


Without limiting the foregoing, we and our designees shall have the right to remove any material that violates this Agreement, that we believe in good faith may create liability for us, or that we deem is otherwise objectionable. You acknowledge and agree that we may preserve material and may disclose material if required to do so by law or in the good faith belief that such preservation or disclosure is reasonably necessary to: (a) comply with legal process; (b) enforce this Agreement; (c) respond to claims that any material violates the rights of third parties; or (d) in our sole judgment, protect the rights, property, or personal safety of the Company, its users or the public.


You understand and agree that the site may review and delete any content, messages, double-blind emails, photos or profiles, in each case in whole or in part, that in the sole judgment of the Company violate this Agreement or which might be offensive, illegal, or that might violate the rights, harm, or threaten the safety of Members.


Forums/Message Center Policy

You agree, through your use of any forum operated by Boytoy.com through our website or any other online platform that we operate from time to time, that you will not post any material which is false, defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, or otherwise in violation of any International law. You also agree not to post any copyrighted material unless you own the copyright, or you have written consent from the owner of the copyrighted material. Spam, flooding, advertisements, chain letters, pyramid schemes, and solicitations are also forbidden on this forum. You agree to abide by the Terms of Service (TOS) provided on the forum boards.


Note that it is impossible for the staff or the owners of this forum to confirm the validity of posts. Please remember that we do not actively monitor the posted messages, and as such, are not responsible for the content contained within. We do not warrant the accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any information presented. The posted messages express the views of the author, and not necessarily the views of this forum, its staff, its subsidiaries, or this forum's owner. Anyone who feels that a posted message is objectionable is encouraged to notify an administrator or moderator of this forum immediately. The staff and the owner of this forum reserve the right to remove objectionable content, within a reasonable time frame, if they determine that removal is necessary. This is a manual process, however, please realize that they may not be able to remove or edit particular messages immediately.


You remain solely responsible for the content of your posted messages. Furthermore, you agree to indemnify and hold harmless the owners of this forum, any related websites to this forum, its staff, and its subsidiaries. The owners of this forum also reserve the right to reveal your identity (or any other related information collected on this service) in the event of a formal complaint or legal action arising from any situation caused by your use of this forum.

With this user account you are about to register, you agree to never give your password out to another person, for your protection and for validity reasons. You also agree to NEVER use another person's account for any reason.


Browse access to the forums is a free benefit of Boytoy membership. Post access is a privilege granted to like-minded Boytoy members supportive of escorts and escorting. Boytoy membership is a necessary but not sufficient condition for Message Center post privileges. Post access is contingent upon sharing the Message Center Mission and observing the Covenant and the Code of Conduct. Publicly demonstrated member conduct, prior to joining Boytoy that establishes a history of egregious conduct or chronically problematic behavior may be considered in the determination of granting Message Center post access.


Failure to observe the Covenant or the Code of Conduct shall constitute cause for termination of Message Center post privileges. Egregious member conduct in external forums may give cause for Boytoy Message Center post-access privileges to be reviewed and revoked at Boytoy Management discretion. Forum shopping to violate Boytoy member privacy will not be tolerated. Termination of post privileges shall in no way affect the status of Boytoy Site Membership which shall remain in good standing with all other benefits intact.


The determination of violations is the sole purview of the Boytoy Management. Message Center post privileges may be terminated without prior notice at the discretion of the Management.


Forum/Message Center Covenant

The Boytoy Management takes very seriously the privacy of its members and recognizes the desire and in many cases the need for discretion. Personal information that can be used to identify a member or non-member, shall not be permitted. No member shall publish or cause to be published such personal information. A violation of the Covenant shall be cause for immediate termination of Forum privileges. Personal Information is any information that identifies a person or his residence or place of employment and includes but is not necessarily limited to:


  • first and last name
  • residential or business address
  • phone number
  • Social Security number
  • credit card number
  • e-mail address
  • Photos of subject or subject's family/friends/pets/place of residence or employment/study, automobile*, or auto license plate.
  • IP address


A member may choose to disclose his first name in 'signing' his posts. Under that circumstance, usage of a first name to address or refer to that member shall not be deemed a violation of the Covenant. Without public announcement by the individual, such first name usage shall be considered a violation of the Covenant and Code of Conduct.


In all instances, Boytoy management shall be the final arbiter of what constitutes personal information.


Forum/Message Center Code of Conduct

Boytoy membership is restricted to Adults Only. That Message Center members shall be expected to behave as adults is not an undue burden. The expected conduct standard for the Boytoy forums is the same as that observed every day in society by adults in our neighborhoods, towns, and cities. It is based on straightforward mature behavior, civility and courtesy that you find in a neighborhood Pub or Tavern where neighbors and acquaintances joined by occasional strangers come together to socialize in good temper, to share conversation, and to hoist, in moderation, a glass of favorite beer or wine or a cup of coffee or tea.


These forums are NOT presented for abusive arguing and name calling, score settling, thread stalking, or general cyberspace blood sport for the chronically bored.


As in any Pub or Tavern, an egregiously abusive or chronically problematic member shall be banned from further post participation.


Like any community, we have standards. We do not allow anyone to FLAME or otherwise abuse any of our members. Being mean or lecturing any members of the community is not allowed. In all instances, management shall be the final arbiter of what constitutes egregiously abusive conduct or when a member has crossed the line of 'chronically problematic'.


In general, terminated memberships shall not be eligible for reinstatement.


Cooperation with Law Enforcement

The Company reserves the right to fully cooperate with any law enforcement authorities or court order requesting or directing the Company to disclose the identity or other information regarding any user or member alleged by any governmental entity to be using the Site or any Content or materials available in, at, through or in association with the Site in violation of any law or regulation, or in violation of this Agreement, including, without limitation, the posting of e-mail messages, or publishing or otherwise making available any such materials. By accepting this agreement, you waive and hold harmless the company from any claims resulting from any action by the company during, or as a result of, its investigations, and from any actions taken as a consequence of investigations by either the company or law enforcement authorities


Protect your identity

Most people would not tell a complete stranger their full name, phone number, email address or other sensitive personal information, so be wary when posting this info on your profile.


Being careful about revealing your identity is a smart move when chatting on Studio 3X. If you decide to take chatting one step further and call or text someone on the phone, you might also want a use a service like Google Voice or Line2, both of which allow you to give people a second number and block them easily.


Don't believe everything you see

A photo can't always be trusted; the person may have taken someone else's photo or found one somewhere. Also, keep in mind that the photo that person sent you may be outdated, edited or retouched.


Honesty is the best policy


If you start out lying, you will eventually get caught. Don’t bait and switch -- it's the surest way for things to end badly. Studio 3X is not the venue for you to explore your fantasies of being a different person. That’s not fair to the Studio 3X community, which thrives on honest representations.


When meeting other members…

  • Don't rush into things
  • Don’t be rushed, and don’t rush the other person. Share your location only when you feel comfortable, and don't feel pressured if the other person has already sent you his location.
  • Agree to meet only when you both are comfortable with each other and consider meeting in a public place.
  • Tell a friend
  • Make sure a responsible person you trust knows who you’re meeting, where you’re going, and when you’re planning on coming back.
  • Report any attacks or threats to law enforcement.
  • If things go wrong, report it to the police. Give them all the facts. If you do not report this person, he in all likelihood will do it again to someone else. You always have the right to say "no" and have it respected.
  • Always go with your gut instinct.
  • Don’t ignore your instincts. Your first instinct is usually the best instinct. Don’t go against your feelings – listen to them. If your gut tells you that something is wrong, cut it short and get out of there. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.


Links to This Site

You may establish a hypertext "link" to this site and/or distribute, modify or re-use the text or graphics of this site only after obtaining written permission from site owner allowing you to do so.


Links to Third Party Sites

This site contains links to sites, which are controlled by third parties. Those linked sites are not under the control of site owner and site owner is not responsible for the contents of any linked site or any link contained in a link site.

Site owner is providing those links to you only as a convenience, and the inclusion of any link does not imply endorsement by site owner of any linked site. Pursuant to the terms of service licensee understands that the act of clicking on a third-party link is the act of leaving the site.


Jurisdiction and Venue

This site is controlled and operated by Boytoy.com and its representatives from their offices in Paris in France. They make no representation that the materials available on this site are appropriate or available for use in other locations, and access. These provisions of this Terms of Use are to be governed and construed laws in France. In the event of a dispute arising out of or relating to this Terms of Use, or your use of or access to this site, litigation must be brought in Paris.


Privacy Statement

Your privacy is important to us. To better protect your privacy, we provide this notice explaining our online information practices and the choices you can make about the way your information is collected and used. To make this notice easy to find, we make it available on our homepage and at every point where personally identifiable information may be requested.


The Information We Collect: When you join the membership portion of our web site you are asked to provide your name, address, e-mail, username, password and birth date. When you participate in special events such as contests and polls, you may be asked to provide your name, e-mail, username and password, and birth date.


When users request pages from our server, our Web server automatically collects some information about the users, including their IP addresses. We also collect information regarding your use of our site through the use of cookies. If you send us personal correspondence, such as emails or letters, we may collect such information into a file specific to you. We will maintain a record or notes of communications with you regarding your account.

This notice applies to all information collected or submitted on the Boytoy website. On some pages, you can order products/subscriptions, make requests, and register to receive materials. The types of personal information collected at these pages are:

  • Name:
  • Address:
  • Email address:
  • Phone number:


The Way We Use Information
We only use this information for internal purposes or for email lists associated with our known and advertised advertisers. We do reserve the right to use your online screen name and account information on our sister sites, boytoyflirt.com and boytoyvideo.com as we share information back and forth with these sites.


We use your information in order to process your credit card payment, to facilitate your viewing of our web site and to communicate with you. We also use this information to compile broad demographic and web site usage information about our users in general that does not contain anything that could be used to identify you personally.


Site owner uses your e-mail address to send periodic e-mail newsletters and promotional e-mail to you about services and products offered by us, if such communication has been requested by you. You can change your PM and Email preferences in the My Account area. You will not receive any e-mail from us unless you have requested it and can indicate at any time that you do not wish to receive e-mail information from us. We do not provide your e-mail to third parties without your express consent.


We do reserve the right to use your online screen name and account information on our sister sites, boytoyflirt.com and boytoyvideo.com as we share information back and forth with these sites. How secure is my information? Site owner takes reasonable precautions to maintain the security of any information obtained from and about you. We provide you with a secure web page through which to submit your billing information when you join the membership portion of our web site. We maintain your personally identifiable information in a reasonably secure manner including storing such information behind firewalls.


Any of the information we collect from you may be used in one of the following ways:

  • To personalize your experience (your information helps us to better respond to your individual needs)
  • To improve our website (we continually strive to improve our website offerings based on the information and feedback we receive from you)
  • To improve customer service (your information helps us to more effectively respond to your customer service requests and support needs)
  • To process transactions
  • Your information, whether public or private, will not be sold, exchanged, transferred, or given to any other company for any reason whatsoever, without your consent, other than for the express purpose of delivering the purchased product or service requested.
  • To administer a contest, promotion, survey or other site feature
  • Internal record keeping
  • We may use the information to improve our products and services
  • We may periodically send promotional email about new products, special offers or other information which we think you may find interesting using the email address which you have provided
  • From time to time, we may also use your information to contact you for market research purposes. We may contact you by email, phone, fax or mail
  • We may use the information to customize the website according to your interests
  • To send periodic emails
  • Note: If at any time you would like to unsubscribe from receiving future emails, we include detailed unsubscribe instructions at the bottom of each email.


Our Commitment to Data Security
To prevent unauthorized access, maintain data accuracy, and ensure the correct use of information, we have put in place appropriate physical, electronic, and managerial procedures to safeguard and secure the information we collect online. We ensure our site is https authorized and that your log in pages are secure.  


How You Can Access or Correct Your Information

You can access all your personally identifiable information that we collect online and maintain by logging into the site and your account information. We use this procedure to better safeguard your information. You can correct factual errors in your personally identifiable information by sending us a request that credibly shows error. To protect your privacy and security, we will also take reasonable steps to verify your identity before granting access or making corrections.


What kind of information do you collect?

When you join the membership portion of our web site you are asked to provide your name, address, e-mail, username and password, credit card number and expiration date, and birth date. When you participate in special events such as contests and polls, you may be asked to provide your name, e-mail, username and password, and birth date.


When users request pages from our server, our Web server automatically collects some information about the users, including their IP addresses. We also collect information regarding your use of our site through the use of cookies. If you send us personal correspondence, such as emails or letters, we may collect such information into a file specific to you. We will maintain a record or notes of communications with you regarding your account.


Who sees my information?

We do not, and will not, distribute, rent or sell any personally identifiable information to third parties without your express consent, other than as necessary to process your credit card payment.


Do we disclose any information to outside parties?

We do not sell, trade, or otherwise transfer to outside parties your personally identifiable information. This does not include trusted third parties who assist us in operating our website, conducting our business, or servicing you, so long as those parties agree to keep this information confidential. We may also release your information when we believe release is appropriate to comply with the law, enforce our site policies, or protect our rights and the rights of others, property, or safety. However, non-personally identifiable visitor information may be provided to other parties for marketing, advertising, or other uses.


I've got more questions - can you help?

Site owner recognizes the importance of protecting your privacy. If you have any questions about this Privacy Statement, the practices of this web site or your dealings with this site, please contact us at crazycalm@gmail.com or by mail at:



c/o Crazy Calm Media

4 Rue Galvani

75838 Paris Cedex 17



Please note that persons under the age of 18 are prohibited from viewing our web site, and site owner does not collect any personal information from persons under the age of 18. Please also note that site owner is not responsible for the content or the privacy polices of web sites to which it may provide links or the websites of its advertisers.  Unless requested via a subpoena, court order, or local, state, federal or international law enforcement request.



Notices by site owner to customers shall be given by means of electronic messages or by a general posting on the site. Notices by customers to site owner shall be given by electronic messages unless otherwise specified in the agreement. All questions, complaints, or notices to site owner by means of electronic message must be sent to: crazycalm@gmail.com.