I just came to this thread tonight (9.16.16) and read through many of the posts out of curiosity. I read yours more thoroughly because you'd addressed the issue/s to me in two or three pvts. a couple of months back. At that time I encouraged you to ignore what appeared at these sites, for when you respond to the salacious comments-- it's "FANNING the FLAMES!" The guys will smack back with words. Again, might I encourage and highly suggest that you read this silliness and NOT respond if you are comfortable in doing this! By doing this, the other vicious "men" perhaps would not "sprew" venom or make vile comments about you!
Thought I'd write this to help vs hindering. Remember the old adage: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words would NEVER hurt me!"